The Quality of life | Major Reasons Behind of all Our Sarrow

Namaskaram, I hope you all are healthy and doing well in your life.

I also hope that you must have read my previous blog (The Choice between Complaints, Learnig and Handling ) and while reading it, you must have  got many questions in your mind, out of which you may have got answers of some questions. And perhaps one of them must have been the question "What is the biggest reason of our misery in the world?"  If we pay attention then it is an important question for us that life is not going as we want.

 See, if you have paid attention to yourself and the people around you, then you must have seen that most of us are unhappy because of some other person, whether he is our friend or partner or spouse or a member of our family.  .

 Because when we have an extreme attachment to one person, then naturally we start hating many other people.  Although all of us may have our own reasons for this, perhaps the real reason is somewhat different.

 Let us ask ourselves a question "Is it easy to change our thinking or the world?"  Obviously it is easy to change your thinking. So now the question is that when our thoughts are so important to us, have we taken the power of our thinking into our hands?  The answer is "no". We are just fallen from our world of fame.

 Think what will happen if all our dreams are fulfilled? Surely we will end because our expectations are born out of the limited scenery of life. Therefore, if we want to achieve something greater in our physical life, then we should not expect. Lack of hope does not mean that we do not have direction. We just have to move in some direction without counting it all the time. On the contrary, if we have expectations, we mostly waste our intensity in unnecessary thoughts, as a result of which we will not be able to go far.

 See, hope is dominating us because from childhood, when we are about 3-4 years old, people often start asking us what will become of us when we grow up? Apart from this, the expectations that our parents have given us since childhood are mostly far from the truth, which turns out to be bad for both us and our parents.

 Along with this,"One reason for our unhappiness is that we seek happiness in our future tomorrow and not in today."

 Suppose we have a wish for ourselves in the future and if it is not fulfilled then we are more sad as well as the strength of our hope becomes stronger. And conversely, suppose we are in bliss right now and we want something to happen. Now we try for it but what if it goes away instead of being completed? So it will not hurt us much because we are happy.

That is, when we try to do anything in the world without improving ourselves, we mostly get sadness. Lord Shri Krishna has also said in Srimad Bhagavad Gita-

 "Yogastha: Kuru Karmani"

 That is, 'Settle in yoga and then work' (Perform your duty and abandon all attachment to success or failure. Such equality of mind is called Yoga).

 Now the question is, what to do so that we do not experience grief?

You just do it. Forget what you want from this world or from people or from yourself. First understand that whatever happens inside you, you will decide yourself, only you. As a result, you will start choosing to be happy yourself. Because when we go behind anything with pleasure, then it will most likely be true and even if it is not done then you will not make much difference.

 We are young now so it is time to establish ourselves and not run away with any hope.

 Thank you.

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The Choice Between Complaints, Learning and Handling

Hello friends, I hope you all are doing well in your life.

We have all been at home for the last few days, whether we want or not. And at the same time, we have attached ourselves with many tasks for this, without any hassle, whether we are debating our surroundings or things or questioning the people or the government.

 Some of us are getting worried about this time while on the other hand some are enjoying this time in a better way.  Because pleasure is always within us but we just keep searching for it in other things, that's why we get bored with those things.

 It is very easy to understand all these things, we just have to ask ourselves a question.  Like why suddenly you get bored of all the things that once used to be a great medium of your pleasure.  Then whether it is your favorite music or a special place or perhaps a special kind of delicious food or someone who meant something to you or something else.

 If we consider all these things, then the question must be coming in our mind that if pleasure is within us then why would anyone want to hurt oneself.

 See, it is very important to understand that "What life throws at us is not our choice, what we make from it is entirely our choice."  Thus, we have only two options, either make the best out of the possibilities given by life or blame life for those possibilities.

 If we just keep complaining, then whatever we do, we feel like a war because the end of complaints is not possible.  On the contrary, if we can contribute to make the world better, it would be a great thing.

 We have to understand that uncertainty is the way of life.  If we do not learn how to draw on the uncertainties of life, we will never be able to live with joy and enthusiasm.  Because realistically our life system keeps changing all the time whether we look at it or not.

 Most of us want certainty in our lives but the nature of our existence is such that it is constantly changing because it is uncertain.  In this world nothing is certain except death, so if you want to move towards certainty, then surely you are moving towards death at a slow pace.

 To understand this, we go back a bit in our life. When we were children, we were definitely a life full of joy and excitement. But now we are slowly just airing. Because even though our physical energy decreases with aging, the vitality cannot decrease. Therefore, we should consider it. Because if we are alive then anything can happen.

 So if we do everything that we do with full participation and desire, then this life is our heaven.  And conversely, if we do any of our work with resistance and lack of  participation, then life will definitely feel like hell.  Surely we can choose either of these two possibilities.

 If we continue to do something irrespective of anything, then we feel all right.

  Therefore, now is the time to give ourselves and find out the various levels of our madness and cure it because even if we do not control the world, we can direct ourselves to a better level.

 We should keep doing something appropriate except our complaints because we are not unhappy with our work, we are not unhappy with the holiday (break ), we are just unhappy with our nature of mind.

 Therefore, we spend our valuable time in making complaints or vice versa learning and handling, it  is definitely our choice.

 Thank you.

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Our Possibilities of Choices with Our Life on Various Levels

Hello friends, I hope you all are doing well in your life.

 Today I will try to put my point in front of you through simple means.  So the thing is that for the last few nights I am not able to sleep properly nor do any other work in a full manner.  Do not make me lonely with this thing because I can be alone but not lonely.  But the only thing is that there is something that is not understood right now, and whenever this happens, I often remove the waves of emotions arising in my mind on a few pages through a pen.  Believe me I am an expert in this because I have been doing this for the last 10 years.

 You may not be able to connect much with these things that I have gone through so far, so let me introduce you to an important part of my life.

 As a child growing up, I understood that as early as possible in life, we should stand on our feet, that is, we should become self-sufficient.  However, of course it is not possible for us to be fully self-sufficient because our life is not just ours.  Many things we achieve only by being dependent on others, but here I mean all those things about which we can be self-sufficient, if we wish. Because this is an important question for ourselves.

 So at the moment I had pledged to be self-sufficient in this way, but the real meaning of this word was soon going to be understood to me.  During this time there were many ups and downs in my life, but the financial struggle affected me the most.  Even today I remember a point made by some of my friends that "a man should spread his legs according to his bed sheet" but I was also fan of Shahrukh Khan, so I thought it appropriate to think about "It is appropriate not to think about how big the sheet is but about how big the sheet can be."

 To shed light on this, I tell you a short story.  Two friends lived in a village.  Both were well in their education and soon both completed their college education.  The first one decided to spend his entire life depending on his present circumstances and the needs of the family, choosing a job for himself. On the other hand, the other friend, while not allowing his needs and circumstances to dominate himself, tried to challenge such possibilities with more determination, which was probably beyond his present condition.  But after patience and extreme efforts, he achieved his destination.

 

You must have seen many people around you who do not have the necessary food to eat, home to live, favorable environment, clothes to wear and lack of good education, as well as many other essential things and unfortunately they  Not even fully capable of meeting the needs.

 If the lives of those two friends of the story are taken as the basis, then the question for us is what kind of opportunity or life we ​​would like to choose.

 

Certainly if we choose the first option, then perhaps we will be able to develop ourselves and our family in the future and on the other hand if we rise above our level of thinking and choose the highest possibilities from the infinite possibilities of the world, then surely  Only we will have more than enough quantity of things.  As a result, we will also have the ability to help and develop other needy people and even have the courage to change the world.

 Surely you are completely free to make any choice in your life.  But the question is that the ultimate pleasure of life is in keeping yourself confined to yourself or creating extremely positive possibilities for other people as well, this choice is yours?

 At the end I end my talk with a few lines from a Writer -

 Behind me is infinite power,

before me is endless possibilities,

around me is limitless opportunities.

 Thank you!

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A Well Try for Better Possibilities

Hi Everyone, I hope you all are doing well in your life.

 As I told in my first blog, my routine was not very well organized. But now I feel like  she is organizing herself better, due to which I am able to get up early nowadays.  Even though I am not able to do anything productive after getting up, but still I am trying to do something good.

 A great poet of Hindi, Dr. Harivansh Rai Bachchan ji has also said in his poem that "those who try are not defeated."  Although we will not talk on the whole poem, its title itself is making it very clear.

 Now you must be wondering why I am telling you all this, after all, what do you have to do with it.  But it has to do with completely.

 Let me tell you a story .  This afternoon I was talking to a close friend.  He said that he is deeply saddened by the religious politics happening in the country and he also expressed his wish that he should have been in a country that believes in a particular religion.  He even talked about leaving his country.

 In these circumstances, such thoughts can come in the heart of any of us, but the question is, is leaving a proper solution?

 Let us understand this by an example.  Suppose you are stuck in some trouble or quagmire, although there is nothing like trouble, it is a situation created by us but still assume that if you are facing troubles, what will you do?  Surely you can have several options out of which two options would be the most effective.

 The first is that you get out of that trouble or swamp as soon as possible and go away.  This is what most of us would love to do.  We always run away from things just like that.

 At the same time, the other option may be that you solve that problem in a better way.  Even though we may not be fully prepared for it, we can still try.  But most of us would prefer to choose the first option.

 Many such incidents happen to all of us in which we often get sad but still what we think and do matters. Even though we think that we are not fully capable of doing something better.  But still the most important question in all these things is whether we really tried to do better or not?

 Thank you !

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About Nature's Lessons for us

Hi Everyone, I hope you will be safe and healthy wherever you are.

 In the last few days, we have all seen some clear changes in the nature around us.  Let's discuss the same thing on the basis today.

We are Human Being (Homo sapiens, a male, female, or child of a species, is distinguished by superior mental development from other animals, the power of clear speech, and upright stance.). In this whole world no other is called a being. That is, we know how to be. 

This is very sad that humanity is constantly trying to prove it wrong.  We can understand this on many levels.  If we do not learn to do each of our actions with full awareness, then nature will teach us this with extreme cruelty.

 

The most important of all these subjects is population.  Right now we can understand it as if what is bothering us the most about corona is the population being so dense it is spreading easily everywhere.  But most people do not want to talk about the population.  Even the leaders of the world did not talk about it much.  Because nobody wants to go against religious communities who are against it.  Whatever the reasons, it has been going on for a long time.

Well, according to Humanity, this (population) is the only problem because we are good but there are many.

 Our presence has increased so much that we are becoming a threat to the lives of other Creatures. 

But still we cannot hold each other responsible for this.  Now is the time to do very sensible tasks. I think we should think about this.

 

If we do not create a living environment for every living being present on this planet, then we will not be able to live for long because our life is not much different from other beings, especially not originally.

We should also remember that nature wants to teach us something in every situation if we are ready to learn.  There is always something around us to learn, but we do not learn from them.  We wait for other cruel possibilities to learn.  Then build their own Philosophy on them.

 

Now is the time to give yourself and to understand the inner sattvikta.

Thank you!

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A DATE that will be Remembered in INDIA (April 05, 2020)

Hi Everyone, I hope you all are doing well in your life.

Last night I again told my conscience that I will ensure my routine but as usual I got up in the afternoon by getting up from bed, then what was it like always, I always refreshed and had my breakfast.  After that, I started reading a very basic chapter of inorganic chemistry.                                         

While doing this some two to three hours passed, but somewhere there was a lots ofgoing on in the mind, may be it could be because not only India but the whole world is struggling with Covid-19 for some times,  some countries are suffering from due to their negligence,the Honorable Prime Minister of india has made tireless efforts in which the most important thing is lockdown all Indians.          

There are no country in such a time which is fully capable of handling such a terrible epidemic. The developed and rich countries of the world are also shivering from this epidemic.

Although India, as our population is, according to it, we certainly do not have enough hospitals and  money so that the people of our country can provide the things they need for a long time. This can only be possible when all the citizens of our country work together in unison.

As the Honourable Prime Minister of india had called last night, tonight everyone should  light a lamp or candle or at least flash light of your mobile. Since ancient times, a lamp used to burn in every Indian's house, but now unfortunately people are seeing it as a special religion. But  fire is an important part of our life. Whether or not we will come out of this pandemic depends on whether the entire country should work together as one person. So let us all come together whether you believe in any religion or any political ideology. Because the virus does not affect your religious and political ideology, it does not have any effect on the basis of any particular person or religion.

                                               

Since at 9:00 pm tonight, more and more people of India have celebrated the work of lighting the lamp as a festival, certainly some of its scenes have been very enjoyable and a positive energy flow.                                   

Here are some other pictures that symbolize the unity of our country (India).

Thank you.

Hindi Translation : नमस्कार, मुझे आशा है की आप सभी अपने जीवन में अच्छा कर रहे होंगे।
पिछली रात मैंने फिर से अपनी अंतरात्मा से कहा की मैं अपनी दिनचर्या को सुनिश्चित करूंगा परंतु हमेशा की तरह मुझे बिस्तर से उठते उठते दोपहर हो गई फिर क्या था हमेशा की तरह हमने फ्रेश होकर अपना ब्रेकफास्ट किया। उसके पश्चात अकार्बनिक रसायन विज्ञान का एक अत्यधिक मूलभूत पाठ को पढ़ना प्रारंभ किया।

ऐसा करते करते कुछ दो से तीन घंटे बीत गए परंतु कहीं ना कहीं दिमाग में बहुत कुछ चल रहा था शायद ऐसा इसलिए हो सकता है क्योंकि पिछले कुछ समय से इंडिया ही नहीं अपितु पूरा संसार Covid-19 से जूझ रहा है जहां कुछ देश अपनी लापरवाही के कारण उसका खामियाजा भुगत रहे वही हमारे देश के माननीय प्रधानमंत्री जी ने इस महामारी से बचने के लिए अथक प्रयास किए हैं जिसमें सबसे महत्वपूर्ण है कि सभी भारत वासियों का अपने ही घर में लॉक डाउन होना।

 

इस तरह के समय में कोई भी देश ऐसा नहीं है जो इस तरह की भयंकर महामारी से निपटने मे पूरी तरह से सक्षम हो। दुनिया के विकसित तथा अमीर देश भी इस महामारी से कांप रहे हैं हालांकि भारत, जैसा कि हमारी जनसंख्या है उसके अनुसार निश्चित तौर पर हमारे पास पर्याप्त अस्पताल तथा इतने पैसे भी नहीं है जिससे काफी लंबे समय तक देशवासियों को जरूरत की चीजें उपलब्ध कराई जा सके,निश्चित रूप से यह संभव नहीं। यह केवल तभी संभव हो सकता है जब देश के सभी नागरिक मिलकर एक साथ एकजुट होकर काम करें।

 

जैैसा कि कल रात माननीय  प्रधानमंत्री ने आवाहन किया था कि आज रात को हर किसी को एक दीया या  मोमबत्ती या कम से कम अपने मोबाइल की फ्लैश लाइट जलाएं। प्राचीन समय काल से ही प्रत्येक भारतीय के घर में एक दीया  जलता रहता था परंतु अब दुर्भाग्यवश लोग इसे एक धर्म विशेष के रूप में देख रहे हैं। परंतु आग हमारे जीवन का एक महत्वपूर्ण हिस्सा है। 

हम इस महामारी से बाहर आएंगे अथवा नहीं इस बात पर निर्भर करता है की संपूर्ण देश को एकजुट होकर एक व्यक्ति की तरह काम करना चाहिए। तो चलिए हम सब एक साथ आए चाहे आप किसी भी धर्म को मानते हो अथवा किसी भी राजनैतिक विचारधारा के हो क्योंकि वायरस आपकी धार्मिक तथा राजनैतिक विचारधारा के अनुसार प्रभाव नहीं डालता इसका प्रभाव किसी व्यक्ति विशेष अथवा धर्म विशेष के आधार पर नहीं होता।

 आज रात 9:00 बजे से भारत के अधिक से अधिक लोगों ने दीप प्रज्वलन के कार्य को एक त्यौहार की तरह मनाया है निश्चित रूप से इसके कुछ दृश्य अत्यंत ही सुखद तथा एक धनात्मक ऊर्जा का प्रवाह रहे हैं।
धन्यवाद। 

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